By Elizabeth Wasserman
After he moved to a new neighborhood in Rochester, N.Y. last spring, Neil Bardhan was invited to join an online social network -- not unlike Facebook or MySpace -- dedicated exclusively to his neighborhood called South Wedge. Using the network, Barhan, 26, connected with friends, learned about a local farmers market and found out about a group called Dog Walkers Against Crime.
“It helps to get to know what kind of people are in the neighborhood and what sort of resources there are,” says Bardhan.
Once the purview of teens, social networking has not only become useful to professionals networking for jobs and business contacts; it’s now helping people with a range of interests connect. Sites like MySpace and Facebook are giant social networks that let you create a profile and connect with friends or start private groups within the wider network. But a new breed of web sites allow you to create “white label” social networks -- the equivalent of your very own MySpace with your own look and feel and a private or public membership. And everyone from mom’s groups to book clubs to Little League teams to school classrooms are setting up easy-to-use, custom social networks so that people with like interests or situations can stay connected.
So, if you’re ready to create your own custom social network, here’s what you need to know to get started:
Q. Why should I create my own social network?
A. This really depends on the people you want to connect with in your social network. For example, you may be interested in building a social network because you have trouble coordinating meetings of your neighborhood book club. Or maybe you want to share photos, video and announcements with members of your local swim team. Or perhaps you long to reconnect with college friends who worked with you on the student newspaper. Whatever your reason for starting a social network, you need to be realistic about what gets people to join and remain involved.
“The goal is not to be the largest social network on the web but to be the most relevant,” says Gina Bianchini, CEO of Ning, a San Francisco company that has one of the most popular free services for creating personalized social networks. “You want to meet a need for friends or family by creating a space to go and connect with one another.”
Getting people to join the network and stay connected requires inspiring passion and involvement, adds Thad Martin, senior vice president of ONEsite, another social networking platform based in Oklahoma City. “There’s a lot of personal expression involved,” he says. “People like to get in a group where they see peers express themselves, uploading photos, adding blog posts, etcetera.”
Q. Where can I find a custom social network service?
A. Once you have a reason to network, a variety of web sites now offer free tools to let you custom create a social network. But before you do, here’s an important alert to parents: As with most social networks, custom social network services can sometimes include mature content that is suitable only for adults. So, before you allow your teens to set up their own network, be sure to thoroughly understand the service and its policies on content and privacy.
Once you’re ready to get started, here are a few sites that are popular among do-it-yourselfers, and some tips for getting started:
Q. Can I create an invite-only network?
A. Though there are ways to create semiprivate groups within existing open social networks, such as Facebook and MySpace, custom social networks allow you to make an entire network private. You must make this choice when setting up your network for the first time. For instance, on Ning, when you’re setting up a new network, you’ll need to select from two options: “Public -- Anybody can see or join it” or “Private -- Only invited people can join and see it.” Once you choose private or public, you can’t switch the setting, so make sure you think about the public versus private option ahead of time. If you set up an invite-only network, the final step is inviting your friends to join in!
But before you go through the effort of setting up your own social network, the key is to be clear about who your network is for, and to be dedicated to keeping it alive. “I absolutely don’t think you have to be wise to Facebook or MySpace to create a social network or join a social network,” says Bianchini. “But the same things apply: Are there people who would join and is there a reason for someone to join?”
Elizabeth Wasserman is a freelance writer and editor based in Fairfax, Va. She writes for a variety of publications including Congressional Quarterly and Inc. magazine, and she edits the online publication CIO Strategy Center.

